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Matters of The Heart

HOW YOU CAN TRUELY RECOVER FROM A BREAKUP. Sometimes the only way you can move on successfully and quickly from a breakup is by trying your best to avoid or stay away from your ex-partner or lover. Cutting off every means of communication would be a very good start for you to move on healthily...Yes! I know you might still think of them(him) in that beautiful heart of yours,but blocking his cell phone numbers on your phone and blocking them on every social media would really help reduce the emotional trauma and heartbreak you facing or going through... The truth is, i hate "sugar coating" things or real situations and i get disturbed when i see some ladies do that. I mean,most ladies lie to themselves by telling themselves that they want to move on after a breakup and still they just can't stop being in contact or in touch with the very person who hurt them.they just can't stop logging in just to check his recent updates on every social media_Instagram,BBM,Google+,Facebook, Watsap e.t.c...Jeeez!!! how on earth do you think you can move on with your life after a breakup,if you keep doing these things? You are only hurting yourself the more if you continue to do this.And most importantly, you robbing yourself the chance of being love by some other guy out there and shutting down every doors of opportunity of being happy...Trust me ladies, thet healthiest and quickest way to stop thinking about your ex-partner or even a terrible relationship and move with your life happily, is to cutoff all means of communications with your ex. Because if the communication is still there and you know very well within yourself that he(ex-partner) would not return to you or you would not want to go back to him,then be rest assured you might remain single and unhappy because you will never see or feel the need to let someone else make you happy again.

August 31 2015 , Written by Roli Mejebi

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COULD IT BE YOUR FAULT...? Ladies have you ever had the thought that you could be the reason or your attitude was the reason your relationship with your partner or spouse is getting complicated and your partner spends less time with you.And also he doesn't give you much attention as he usually does...? Well,if you ask me,am very sure you have never thought of it. Now,let's see some reasons why the problem could be coming from u.(1) Your Words: The words you say to people around you really matters alot.because it either helps or distroy them.Most ladies often don't listen to the words that pop out their mount,mostly especially when they have issues with their patner.Some go as far as saying words like; "i hate you" "you are the worst thing that has ever happen in my life" "i feel like killing you" " i wish we never meet"...e.t.c. What ladies fails to comprehend is that these heart breaking words scares thier partners away from them sometimes. Men can be annoying sometimes, yes i know that! but he got you upset over little things doesn't mean you should tell him all the terrible things in the world...even before he comes to apologize. because the truth is most men comes back to apologized when they know they have hot you. (2) Self-control; Ladies, try as much as possible not to get upset over every little thing your partner does or say to you.Learn to see some funny he says to you as a joke when ever you having a conversation with him.e.g " you are silly" "you are not serious",e.t.c Because most ladies always make the mistake of making a mountain out of molehill by getting upset over evry little issue and also making their partner to apologize for more than 24/hours... I get it,your man should apologize for his mistakes, but don't take it too far most especially when its an issue that can be resolved in less than 24/hours.Trust me,men hates it when they apologize for too long.

August 1 2015 , Written by Roli Mejebi

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